Settling is never an option. You know why people settle? Because they either feel like they aren’t worth much or they’ve gone through so much bull that they figure that’s all they’ll ever get from any situation.
Now, just speaking to the ladies right now: How many times do men mention pre-numps? If they are making more money than you, they damn sure want to make sure you don’t walk away with half of what they worked so hard to get. They are PROTECTING THEIR OWN! So, when men want to call you a gold digger because you ask him about his money, let him know you’re protecting your own as well.
Don’t get it twisted. There are some scheming heffas who are money-hungry skeezers. But at the end of the day realize that as a human you must protect your assets, including your heart and your sex. They say real recognize real. Well, how many “real niggas” or “down-ass bitches” you know who have screwed someone over? Tons of them. So obviously real doesn’t recognize real if you’re fake. So, to all my ladies and my fellas, protect your own. Recognize your worth and learn to play the game of life. In the end most of us want a happy ending.
