Men Bashing is Wrong...

However, some men deserved to be bash. This is not a blog about men vs women, nor a battle of the sexes. This is simply a blog to question why men must lie. We all know everyone, male or female, lies at some point in time but men seem inclined to lie ALL the time. Point: There's this guy that knows I have a boyfriend but professes his like for me and claims that he will wait until I'm single (if that ever happens) to make me his. Ok, dream on buddy. But he's a nice guy so I let him off easily. Well, all the while I ask him, "So, there's no other girl you're interested in? Do you really want to keep wasting time on me?" His response every time is "No, I know God sent you for me. You're the girl I plan to marry." OK, sure. So, I find out that he's talking to another girl and when I ask him about it, he still says there's no one that he's talking to or interested in. Then I decide to be more specific, because guys can't seem to be honest if you aren't painstakingly specific, and I ask him if there's someone that's interested in him or someone that he's seeing a lot more of these days. Finally he tells me yes but it's not serious. Now I should not care because I'm in a relationship and I am truly happy that he's found someone else to occupy his time. I'm upset because I don't like nor respect liars. Why try to cover it up? And why try to talk to two girls at the same time? Do men really need that back up in case one girl completely shuts them down? Ugh, men of this caliber make me sick and make me want to run them over with my car. OK, not that extreme, but you get the point. Lesson to all men: if you want to play dirty at least have the balls to be honest about it. Girls will respect you more and appreciate it in the long run. Geez, men never learn.